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The Stuff Nobody Tells You About Building a House in Mexico
There are a lot of little things about buying a house in another country that you don't have to think about when you purchase in the United States. Other people may have different experiences, but when I bought my apartment in the US, it came with cabinets and most of the closets (I had to build one in the bedroom). The windows came with screens and the staircase had railings. My house in Mexico didn't come with those things. It's both good and bad. The good was being able to

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Oct 214 min read


A Walking Contradiction: When Life Throws You a Curveball
I am a walking contradiction. I'm both a meticulous planner and someone who thrives on spontaneity. Definitely not a risk-taker, yet...

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Aug 143 min read


What is Home?
When I was younger, I never thought about my future in terms of who would get what after I died. It's morbid and we all want to think...

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Jun 123 min read


How NOT to Prepare for Closing on a Mexican Home (But It Worked Out Anyway)
I swear the wait was about a year, but closing was finally within sight. I was a bundle of nerves and excitement. I'd never done anything...

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Apr 155 min read


Closing the Door on My American Dream
After months of charts, spreadsheets, and late-night calls with my mother, I finally decided on the property that would become my new...

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Mar 43 min read


No Pasaporte
I do stupid things quite often, but I can usually think or talk my way out of any mess. Or at least get a good laugh out of it. This...

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Jan 285 min read


Door #1 or Door #2
My decision-making process is just that--a process. Part of it is instinct and vibe, and part of it is old-fashioned pragmatism. Oh, and...

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Jan 122 min read


House Hunting Internationally
My mother likes to say when I get a bee in my bonnet, I’m going to win at whatever it is. I hate to admit there’s more than a grain of...

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Dec 6, 20246 min read


A Dose of Reality
Like most people, I love being right. I don’t gloat, but I get a self-satisfied grin on my face or try to further explain why I’m right....

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Sep 29, 20242 min read


I Been Thinking...
I’m a pretty cautious person, dipping my toe in the water, testing, swirling it around a bit to make sure nothing is going to bite me...

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Jul 27, 20243 min read


House Hunters International
Confession: I used to love HGTV. I could sit for hours with the television tuned to my second favorite station. Myles of Style was my...

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May 22, 20243 min read


Cancun...
I am not a beach person (too many people). I am not a water person (can’t swim). I am, however, a person who loves sunshine and warm...

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Mar 28, 20244 min read


It's a Smaller World After All
Purchasing a house is a big decision. Moving to a different city or state is a heavy lift. Building a life in a different country? That’s...

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Feb 18, 20243 min read


The Decision
A friend once asked, “Girl, do you even have a pulse?” I wear my calm stillness as a badge of honor, chest poked out and everything, but...

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Jan 10, 20243 min read
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