Like most people, I love being right. I don’t gloat, but I get a self-satisfied grin on my face or try to further explain why I’m right. Not to rub it in, just to make sure my point is really heard. It can be annoying. I can be annoying. At the same time, I love a good debate. I love when people try to punch holes in my thinking and I try to plug them. There are times, like now, when I ask people to do just that.  My cousin, with whom I am very close, is one such person who c