I’m a pretty cautious person, dipping my toe in the water, testing, swirling it around a bit to make sure nothing is going to bite me before I slip further inside.   I suspect if you were to ask family and friends, they would say, “Girl, you don’t give a f*ck, you are going to do exactly what you want to do.” They’d point to my willingness to do any and everything with myself—theater, dinner, concerts, travel. To me, those are the safe things because I don’t have to combat my