My mother likes to say when I get a bee in my bonnet, I’m going to win at whatever it is. I hate to admit there’s more than a grain of truth to that. Some may say it’s a character flaw, but I think it’s an asset that has served me well…most of the time. When I am focused and determined to “win,” I usually get what I want. For better or worse, it’s how I’ve operated my entire life.  As a football fan, I like to think I have a little bit of Bill Belichick in me (get your nasty